The ability to vent

ok I am not going to go through all of this Harris crap again. If you want to see what I had to say about it from the position of President of The Alliance go here http://thealliancenc.wordpress.com/2012/05/07/today-is-monday/

If you are here, you have come to see what Storm, the person, the transgender man, the father, the future husband and the human being has to say.

I am so sick and tired of the hatred, the vileness, the nasty waves of energy going through this state because of this Amendment. I am tired of trying to get narrow minded closed hearted people to see exactly what it is going to do. I am not a lawyer, I can’t point out all of the things the wording of it leaves open to harm us. Though there are lawyers out there who can and who have tried over and over again to show people the harm and sometimes it just does not seem to matter to them.

We have people who keep yelling about “family values” Yes a man at our Saturday protest yelled that out of his car window as he drove by. I will not assume I knew how he was implying it, but I simply said “EXACTLY”

OMG we are families. We raise children, we have holidays, we have happy days and sad days. We even fight among ourselves. Just because what I have under my jeans is different than what you think it should be does not mean I am any less human than you are. And it certainly does not mean I deserve less than any other person in this country or world for that matter.

I have three beautiful children and the two oldest I gave birth two, and guess what!!!??? for the first 12 years of their life. I raised them ALONE!!! Without a so called “man” ( let me say those who know me, know I am saying that only because the world perceives me as female) Want to know something else? The oldest is a freakin genius and is in college and does NOT have a criminal record yes, she is female. Now the next one is a male.. did ya hear that. a MALE.. and guess what.. he is not in freakin jail! He is not a hoodlum! He is respectful towards women and children and even hateful vile spewing people. Why?? Because I taught him that.. oh and guess what.. He calls me Dad! If some looked at me they would say.. “no son that is your mom” (yeah hard to miss the DD’s bumps on the chest)

So tell me something is my son a good son because he was raised for the first 11 years of his life by a man or a woman? Either way he was missing one of them wasn’t he?  Ok so now that Angel and I are together and yes Angel is a woman, and they call her mom. Does that mean they have a mom and dad in their life so therefore that is why they turned out so nice? Whoa hold up, look at me physically (for those of you who do not get a freakin clue) take a look, we are both “female” (by your standards) but again our kid are not in jail do not have records and have never been in trouble with the law whatsoever. So tell me now what are they missing? I will tell you what they have

THEY HAVE TWO LOVING PARENTS! I am a transgender man.. (for those who are not privy of what that is, I was born into a female body and I am taking steps to make it male) and my wife (in our eyes) is a female. Want to know what we did to have such great children?

WE LOVED THEM! We taught them the difference between love and hate. Oh and guess what, when my son played with his sister’s dolls and she played with his trucks. I DID NOT TOUCH THEM ONCE!.. oh and guess what else. They have never been beatened, or told they should be one way or the other.

They have been loved and taught to love. Oh so now lets see some might start saying, ok well you are a sinner Storm and you will be going to hell.. well guess what.. I am perfectly ok with my Karma and if your idea of heaven is filled with people who think nothing by hatred.. then I am glad to not have an invite there thank you very much.

Man sometimes working in this community and having to deal with the hatred people have of us is so emotionally draining and I try my very best to keep my anger down and to respond in a positive way. But this is my personal blog and still I am not attacking any one person. I am attacking the hatred, the vile spewing people who spread such hate.. so again I am ok with my Karma. but really sometimes I just want to say some familiar four letter words and scream into the sky.

Ok going to get something to drink and I will come back and make another post and let all my friends know about my appointment on Friday.

Stay strong my sisters, brothers and children.

-Storm